Codependence is just one possibility of an all around interdependence
The transcendent is beyond our knowledge, but not above our experience.
The one thing that cannot be a “big deal” is yourself, no matter how “successful” you are.
A challenge of being responsive is not reacting to the reactivity of others.
Everyone is a lover.
A hater habitually identifies with that feeling.
Then there are whole continents of ignorance, entire continents of indifference.
All organizing is scifi. But not all scifi is organizing; much of it is institutionalizing.
And sometimes kind things are unsaid out of meanness.